Something about Vietnam girls....

If you think that Vietnamese women might still be like the one shown in the photo above, know that you are totally wrong. Vietnamese women are not as you imagine, too many war movies have marred the image. Women in Vietnam are much better than you ever thought that they are.

Western men have got it in their minds that all Vietnamese women are "Me love you long time". And that is really all they know about Vietnam and its women.

So when they meet women and discover that Vietnamese women have brains and brawn, wow, they have to stop and rethink what they've been brainwashed to believe.

Man usually find ways to seduce a girl yet it is sometimes too awkward to immediately express your urge towards one woman who is very descent and conservative like many women living in Asia. Asian women are mostly sensitive and conservative. Some of them are still treasuring their cultures and still practicing their tradition, Virginity is very important for it symbolizes the purity. 

Most importantly, you must come across as sincere or she will most likely interpret you as some flirt waiting to pounce on Asian girls. Let your real personality shine through your online conversations and your manner of approach. But do not expect her to be direct and straight forward like any other western girl. Asian women are brought up in such a way that they do not admit their feelings easily and when she like someone, she is more likely to drop hints rather than a direct confession. A traditional Asian girl looks for a man who is honest, faithful and can provide a stable lifestyle.

So to all the guys who are very interested in winning a woman's heart here are some tips:

1) Be yourself:

You don't actually need to please a woman by pretending and offering her gifts. Asian women are actually pleased by guys who have a sense of humor and tends to show who they really are. Girls don't usually believe at love at first sight you really have to work hard to show your sincerity. You have to be genuine and be confident with what you have and what you are, anyway girls will still love you no matter what.

2) Patience is Virtue:

Patience is very important in winning a woman's heart. Courting is one way to show your sincerity and woman usually tend to make a guy wait to measure if the man is really serious . You can offer gifts like roses and chocolates if you want but it is not a guarantee that you would have her. Letters are far more powerful than material gifts, just express what you feel and the rest will follow.

3) Be Respectful:

Treat woman as a woman in your life... not as a decoration or as an attachment for something else... Show her how much you mean to her, that you won't live without her. Try to Respect her family and befriend her friends.

4) Be a man:

Don't make promises if you don't mean it. Asian woman tends to give their all to their man they love the most so don't try to mess with their heart or else you will lose the most precious treasure you can have. If you promise to love her forever then do it.

5) Be honest:

Please do not show off by impressing her with information you know about her country. It may show that you have done your homework however what she truly want is know more about you.

6) Be faithful:

Most importantly, you must come across as sincere or she will most likely interpret you as some flirt waiting to pounce on Asian girls. Let your real personality shine through your online conversations and your manner of approach. But do not expect her to be direct and straight forward like any other western girl. Asian women are brought up in such a way that they do not admit their feelings easily and when she like someone, she is more likely to drop hints rather than a direct confession. A traditional Asian girl looks for a man who is honest, faithful and can provide a stable lifestyle.

Something about Vietnam

Vietnam is a modern Asian country and it is changing rapidly. The country is currently in a stage of massive industrial expansionism and these means lots of jobs for both men and women in Vietnam. There is a problem with 'sweatshop' labour of uneducated women, often immigrants not even from Vietnam, but this problem is gradually going to disappear as the government cracks down on illegal operations. 

Vietnam does have some government corruption issues, but this is the same everywhere in the world. The difference is that in Vietnam everyone knows the government is corrupt, in comparison Americans are often blinded by their own biases and don't care that they're being swindled by men in Wall Street.

So to all the men out there you guys need a reality check. If you guys are so easily swindled by Wall Street what makes you think your opinion of Asian women is as accurate as the stock market? 

Some people just can't see the lies when they're surrounded by them.